So very sorry for your losses. They say that time heals all. It may not truly heal all the way but it sure does help. You cannot erase a memory but you can make it joyful in time because it does turn into the joy you spent and happiness, the sorrow fades is all. What a lovely job you have done for Gail. God loves you and it is already showing what can be done through this quilt. God Bless You!