We can all offer you an opinion but only you know the dynamic between you & your husband. I'm not good at secrets where DH is concerned. It's not like he demands or expects it. I just have a conscience that won't let me lie or keep anything from him. I always tell the truth because I have a terrible memory and figure if I just tell the truth I'm fine. Also don't have guilty feelings. I can be tactful but can't tell an out & out lie.