Yaya quilts...could you set aside a certain amount of time each day dedicated to what hubby wants to do and then the same amount of time for you? Just an idea...the retirement thing is a puzzle and takes awhile to figure out. Good luck and hope you have a wonderful trip in that new RV. Some RVers quilt in their Rvs! Hmmm....there's a thought....he drives & you quilt. LOL!
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