My daughter and her new husband visited. They stayed in a little appt. we have and had bathroom, kitchen and bedroom all to themselves. I decided to turn the appt. into my sewing space. I made my old sewing room into a bedroom, where I keep some odds n ends. They came to visit again and had to stay in the extra bedroom. I thought that sence he wasn't working it would save them getting a motel. Later my other daughter told me that first daughter phoned her to ask if they could stay at her house cause moms house was so messy. I know it was him complaining is why Becky called her sister and asked to stay at her house. From now on they can just get a motel cause if he can't stand a bit of clutter in lieu of $65 for a motel then tuff you know what! It never bothers my daughter when she comes by herself. I will probably never have a clean uncluttered house. Like some of you others, my house was cleaner when I worked a 40 hr week.