You have my sympathy...we offered shelter to daughter, son-in-law, toddler granddaughter and then newborn grandson for 10 months following a their loss of job out of state, loss of health insurance in the midst of a difficult pregnancy, baby being born prematurely, etc. My sewing room was turned into a nursery. They are back on their feet with a job, in a new home and I got my sewing room back this summer. I wouldn't have changed anything we did to help out our family during this difficult economy ... but losing your control of your house, and to some extent your life, can be trying. And sewing is your time alone to try to capture some of that back. Frankly, I've found that men, if they are tired, usually sleep through most anything. I'd try sewing away with some soft music in the background and then smile sweetly in the morning and say, "I hope my sewing didn't keep you awake last night. I really got a lot accomplished." It will probably be fine.