I finally gave up trying for the tiny stitches for the same reason. I can't maneuver the tiny needles anymore..I aim now for consistency and neatness. I love the John James needles, The one I like best is the size 9 Gold n Glide. They move through the fabric easier so less stress on the hands. The gold eye helps thread it, although as the day goes on, I do depend on a threading device more.