oooooooohhhhhhhh Mary I am so sorry to hear about your SIL.
I will keep your family in my thoughts.
On another note, I just applied for a job with Scottrade
(where hubs works) and IF I should get "lucky" to be hired
then I will have to go to St. Louis for a 2 week stint to do
on-board training and such.
If that happens maybe we can meet up for a beverage
(coffee, tea or something NON-alcohol). Personally I
would much rather meet up with somebody who I would
have something in common with as to meeting up with my
"I have a PhD, so therefore I am better than you" SIL.
Yeah I know I sound "bitter" towards her, but I just do not
like her and avoid her as much as I can, even my hubs
(her brother) doesn't like being around her.