Of course you are a quilter! One doesn't decide to become a doctor and go out the next day and perform an appendectomy. Reading books, watching videos, learning about the tools of the art is all part of the process. Quilting is something in your heart and soul, that's what makes you a quilter. The quilts themselves are only an outward sign of what you have learned, how you express what is inside of you. You are taking your first steps on this wonderful journey. Enjoy every moment of this trip, welcome aboard!
And I'm with Neesie - a big sloppy raspberry to any who say otherwise!