Wow, my first thought was how important is it (or will it be) to the recipients of the quilt to have her name removed? Or does she want her name removed? The sentiment of good wishes may still apply and if they will stay on friendly terms with her maybe they will want her name to say there. Now, if they hate her guts ... that's a different story LOL. Sorry, I don't have any ideas for removing the ink. The quilt is lovely!
Suzy