Originally Posted by thimblebug6000
You could ask the man if he would like his "ex" name to remain on the block, and if not, ask him to rewrite his block. It isn't that difficult to pick those stitches out & inset a new block.
The signers should have no say in the matter, the quilt is not for them and it's certainly not the only time their names will be linked "on record". Since the husband was the 'friend', he's the one who probably wrote the message...maybe even signing his wife's name.
Leave it be. If the wedding couple doesn't want her name there, they can either fix it themselves or ask you to do something about it later. Chances are, more than one couple will separate in the next 25 years anyway.