It's the other way around with us.
DH wants me to buy things and supports me in all my quilting as he knows how important it is to me.
But he also knows I won't buy things I don't have the money for.
It's not to me to judge you, but I think you are not feeling good about it because else you wouldn't have written this post.
I agree with neesie's last two sentences.....but who am I??