nancia I know my anger doesn't touch them. If I keep it, all I do is hurt myself. Years of therapy should have gotten me in a better place. But that brother needed to hear a part of what he hasn't been a part of. Treating me like a non-person and then telling me he was very concerned about how things were going with Mom.(It's her 89th birthday today) Wrong!!!! So my eating has been off today - tomorrow will be another new day and a new start.