I've been on both sides of this conversation. I have given something to someone I am close to that I spent many hours making that was not only treated badly it was then discarded when it got dirty. She didn't even bother washing it. I also just watched my daughter-in-law and her best friend both at their baby showers. One was a normal size shower, the other a large shower. When there are that many gifts to open, and that many people looking at you, I don't think you always do and say the right thing. That being said, I would give her the benefit of the doubt and wait until/if you get your thank you card and see what it says. Or if it's someone close to you see if she doesn't come and tell you how much she likes it. If not, I'm sorry. I hope that doesn't stop you from being kind in the future.