What a wonderful memorial for a fine young man. I lost my first son, too, so I certainly can understand how you & your friend feel. Like Joe Biden said last week, not all losses are the same & the loss of a child is (to my way to thinking) the worst. I heard Paul Newman say once (re losing his son), it doesn't ever get easy... it just gets bearable & that has been my experience. Please know that you & your friend are in my heart & my thoughts.