Pat, my heart goes out to you. Harrassment comes in all forms and on the job is the worst. I so remember when I was 8+ months pregnant with our daughter, and my boss told someone to "go ask the one that looks like a house". My weight has always been a huge thing for me and I was devastated. He tried to apologize at my house later, but I told my husband "I have to see him at work, but not in my house". I should have reported it, but didn't. He has since died, but I remember and always will remember what he said. And to think I was much thinner then than now. Life....