hugs...gently.
Hope, at another time, you are able to find a fix for quilt that you are happy with. In the mean time, a nice warm, rice sock on your neck might help.
(take a discarded sock, fill with rice, not packed, you need to tie the end closed, and you want it to be able to "conform", to your neck, after you heat it in microwave. Experiment how long, maybe starting with 30 seconds...not warm enough, add 30 more and so on...you don't want to burn yourself.) feel better :D