I had a leather thimble for the under hand, but would still poke an uncovered finger no matter what finger I used it on!! I think unless I felt it I didn't feel secure about making it thru all layers...I finally gave up and grew callouses!! I do know there is something like a spoon some people use, but I figure I would probably still stab myself! LOL
ps- I love your quote..I have a grandaughter with Autism...and was in the education field for years...SO TRUE!!