I think the quilt is a wonderful idea. But make it with a denim back. I don't see how a man who "doesn't think much" about how to take care of the quilt will be able to follow difficult directions for washing it. I also think the Velcro thing is a wonderful idea. That way he would have less to worry about, and his quilt would stay dry longer. Put a few Velcro spots in the middle also.