I've gone to chemo with several friends and it seems like there is a point where the meds take over and they just want to close their eyes and rest. That's when the chemo quilts come out. I've learned through trial and error that lap size is nice and instead of a backing and batting, I use a flannel sheet. It can be single layer or double layer. It is soft and comfy and there is no air space to deal with - it just molds to the body. I, too, like to avoid the pink ribbons. Instead I use a pattern that has appliqued butterflies on it -- a symbol of hope.