Hello Rebecca and everyone who responded!! Great to chat.
I'm kind of sitting in the place where I'm not sure if I want to resolve the "problem" - it's a bit of stubbornness on my part - maybe my hobby is all mine and not intended to benefit anyone else. ;-)
I'll check out that UFO Challenge. Today I will reorg my quilt room (why does everyone try to dump their junk in my room! as if I wouldn't notice!). Then we'll see what's next. Maybe finish my aunt's wedding quilt. And reward myself with doing 1 new block after stippling a few hours.
Hmmm... an idea is forming!