It is so easy to get stressed out when you think of all the things you have to do; so don't think about them. Pick out one thing; if it's a matter of making up your mind; just grab something or have hubby help you pick. Then do that and you'll be started. Once you get started it's easier to keep going. I think most of us need jump started once in a while. I know that I do. It's like house work, when I look around and see all that needs to be done I just want to sit down and do nothing because it seems to over whelming but that gets me no where. Just start somewhere; baby steps. For the first time in over 40yrs I live in a house by house (since Sept) and now I really like it. In the beginning I was having grandkids to stay over alot; now I send them home so that I have at least one night to my self on my days off from work. Enjoy the freedom