Kathryn, Lacelady, Terri, and other foreign dignitaries...I would be willing to be a go-between if you want to participte and stay secret. In other words, you could mail your stuff to me, then I can forward it on from here (a fairly large cosmopolitan area..it would narrow things down, but still not be a give-away). If a few others in the exchange are willing to do this, then we can help keep your identity hidden during the game! the only thing for sure is I would now I don't have you, or your partner! narrows it down, but doesn't spill the beans on my partner.