What a wonderful brother and what a beautiful quilt. I don't know what your crisis is with your daughter but I belong to a group of friends who have adopted children. At our get-togethers we always talk about - what else - our children. One had a daughter who had given her so many problems. She finally got a job that she liked and was very good at. She said she couldn't believe she was now making good money. The first thing she wanted to do was have a surprise 70th birthday party for her mom. It was beautiful, and there were lots of tears.