It just really depends on what she wants. I am also looking for a new quilting machine and I want it to have 4 things: needle up/down, automatic thread cutter, drop feed dogs and a large harp (opening). My husband wouldn't have a clue as to what to look for. You are precious for thinking of it, but I think I would let her pick it out, unless you are absolutely sure of the features that are important to her.