I am suprised one that a quilt is ruined by the quilter and she didnt know it was horrible? that is odd. I think I would have trouble being quiet when picking it up and would have done the gentle talk right then. And never used her again ..I would get serious recommendations first round if you chose to send out again. The fact these two women who don't know you at all came in and helped you ONCE AGAIN shows the kindness that abounds on this board. I have had nothing but good experiences here and hope you stick around with us for a long time. The only ruined quilts I have had were done by me (sigh) and picking out all those seams is not a picnic at all. Your quilt is lovely and that young kiddo had better take care of it. Quilts are indeed a labor of love gift.