I go through this every time I give a quilt. People who don't know better will just throw a baby quilt in the washer and dryer. Would anyone believe a crib quilt has $150.00 in it on top of your time. I always give care instructions hoping they get the hint. After that when I see the quilt, I look for signs of accelerated wear from washing and drying etc. I certainly want them to use the quilt but I also want them to appreciate the value.