For me, the key words here are..."if they ask". If I ask for someones opinion that's one thing, but if they start in on everything they see wrong, then I'm intimidated. I don't sew and "quilt" or whatever it is I do to be criticized for everything I've done wrong. I know I make a lot of mistakes but sewing keeps me sane and happy. We all know "if mama ain't happy

...ain't nobody happy!"

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