I too lost my DH in 2006 after 37 wonderful years. I had such a hard time getting back into quilting since he was my cheerleader. ("Whatcha makin'?") Today I am remarried (didn't plan to!) to a lovely widower who really understands, loves and supports me and is a terrible fabric stash enabler which I adore. Just take care of yourself, don't "suffer fools" who try to tell you what you need, listen to that still small voice, pray when you feel lost, and trust in yourself to know what you need and when. All will be well. And, I am still in love with my first husband. It's all possible.