Hi Patsy,
So sorry to hear about your husband. Just do a little quilting when you feel up to it. If it is meant to be you will soon get back into it. Make a quilt for yourself in memory of your DH. I started quilting after losing my youngest daughter at 30 years old, it gave me something to focus on and I believe saved my sanity. As you no doubt know you can come to QB for encouragement as well as friendship or even if you just need to let off steam. Keep at it and "Happy Quilting"