Thank you all for the kind words. And no Jingle I know already she is doing way too much. I spoke with her last night and she is exhausted and surviving on pain meds. I want to go back down to NYCity to help her but until they are in the condo there is no place for me to stay. Plus I don't want to get in their way. I try to always let my children ask for my help first , but my gut says I need to go there to keep her from over doing. Sometimes being a parent of adult children is so hard...........
Kat