I was in your shoes a little over a year ago. Fear had me ready to sale my quilter and frame BEFOR i even opened the boxes.Now even though I am not a great long arm quilter, I am happy with what I can now do. It really does take time, we are told to work with our machines off the frame for a while.This is real good advise. Then get some cheaper fabric , a cheaters quilt top or a panel to work on.This is only to get a feel of your machine .Using the paper to pratice on is a good thing also.I am still working on the choosing and implementing designs. I can not do free motion yet but I hope this to shall come.I think I am to stiff and need to loosen up.Practice Practice practice. Sorry no wonderful words of advice But you are not alone . Have fun and go crazy!!!!