If I see a quilt I have given and it is being used I am excited! That's exactly what I made it for. I don't care if they have another quilt or bedspread on it. I'm just glad they like it enough to use it for whatever reason. As for the back of the quilt being shown, it could have been the way it ended up after the last use! If it was in a car, they must have needed it to keep someone warm and didn't bring it back in yet. The point is, it is being used.