You don't sound whinny, just want more from the guild. We have a fun guild here but I'm in charge of classes and people love classes but getting people to commit is something else. I have had to cancel the last two because lack of interest on the first and the instructor flaked out of the second. Sometimes you have to get involved and put stuff out there, I'm new and trying and I have taken advice so my next class is successful. It's hard to set stuff up if the participation is not there. I also am in charge of our Friday stitch and gab, I food themed that one and make something new every week. Give it a chance and see if you can understand why they don't do as much. Happy Quilting