Ok, first off....
Yes, we have a MAN amongst us. now ladies, be nice to him, we wouldn't want to scare him
When you put your card inside the package, YES, put your name on it, along with your board name so the receiver knows who it is from.
Those sending to US and Canada, the cheapest way to send would be in a Flat Rate Box. Those sending overseas, check the price of either a plain package or Flat Rate Box.