I tell everyone to be VERY gracious when receiving. Sometimes, some will just get a small package, ie, fat quarters and then maybe a little something and then they see someone else who gets a TON in their package.
It's hard, I know, to not be a bit jealous when one doesn't get as much as the other, but nothing I can do about it.
If you get something in your package that you really don't like, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, keep it to yourself. The sender may have thought that it was something nice, whereas the receiver may not like it.
****If you want to update your list, just send the add-on to me.