My DIL sent thank you's out after the wedding....Several months later! But NOTHING after the baby shower that a lit of our church friends attended, I was SO EMBARRASSED!....my aunt crocheted an afghan, mom made a quilt!...nothing! I just hope they don't remember that when my daughter gets married! She is SO not like that, she sends cards and appreciates homemade things because living with me, and being around my mom, she sees how much work goes into them. Your quilt is amazing by the way!