Old 10-02-2012, 04:28 AM
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lisalovesquilting
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Originally Posted by Peckish View Post
Because these things will ALWAYS need to be done, and I need to take care of ME too, not just my family and my home. Cooking and cleaning can be put off a day or two, and my kids have another parent (Dad) who can transport them.

One of the things we need to remember as wives and mothers is we are human, not superhuman. To better serve our families, we need to nurture ourselves just as we nurture them. If that nurturing takes form in a quilt retreat once a year, then I don't have ANY problem in justifying it. I don't feel guilty; I feel energized and reinvigorated, which helps me to get back to my daily routine with enthusiasm.
Well said Peckish. But Ann63 I know where you are coming from also. Are you putting the guilt on yourself? If so STOP IT RIGHT NOW! If its coming from somewhere else try having a heart to heart talk. I love the retreats I attend. We all need "me" time. Lisa
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