I find that I am learning the "stay at home" method. When I first retired, I was out and about all the time, taking lessons, joining this or that sewing group, etc. Then a heart problem interfered, and I was forced to stay at home, thus learned that I really can get a lot more done alone. But missing the visiting sometimes becomes a problem, so I just look around for a group to drop in on, and have the best of both worlds, in my estimation..... Housework and neatness was never a problem with me--I am a 'don't care one way or the other' person and so is my husband, and I have a house cleaner come in twice a month who knows me well enough that I don't have to clean the day before she comes.... But right now I have a mind chock full of ideas, and no motivation to get started on them. What an I do????