I'm in the same "boat" you are cindy, no clues at all. I've snooped and only found about 4 posts. Very cute and I like it doesn't help too much. Picked out FQ's and I keep looking at those wondering if it's the right colors or not. This box is turning out to be a maybe yes, maybe no, eeny, meeny, miney, moe. I've resigned myself to just go with it and put a BIG variety of colors, etc. maybe she'll like a few and if not....she'll have lots to regift to someone.