Oh and another thing...where we go to retreat, the cell phones don't work because there are no towers nearby. That problem solved, there is a rule that if you want to listen to music, you listen to your Iphod with headphones because everyone doesn't like the same music. In the 12 or so I've been on there have only been 2 people that got under my skin. I always ask if they have signed up because one of them tried to discipline everyone for laughing and having a good time. The other one spoke so loudly that no one else could carry on a conversation. And if you did talk to your friend, she butted into every conversation in the room. And then late at night told people to go to bed and then was up at 6 talking loudly again. Sorry, if I want to sleep til 9, I will. So, I've brought earplugs, face mask, and my Ipod for those times I want to be in my own little world.