There should be something about the quilt that your brother can tell it was made for him, and not his name on it , and that it isn't a quilt for just any man - or worse, any woman who doesn't like frilly, feminine things. He should be able to look at it and say, This tells me it was made for me, not your husband, or son or the man across the street. It should be that personal. In fact, if he doesn't like it, some other man might say, oh, it was too personalized for your brother. It doesn't fit my personality. Then you know it is your brother's quilt.