That is great. That is so neat that she used your question. I agree with her. I tend to over do the quilting. It does relax after a few washings and I know my quilts at home are being used and abused. They are tents, the kids drag each other around on them, they are always on the floor being walked on. Even the ones that are quilted pretty heavy, are still cuddly. I think it really depends on the batting you use. When I quilt, I just have fun with it and quilt it however I want it to look.