What a relief. i saw some of the quits, and it appears that there is usually, aside from the center, only room for one or two "spectacualar" borders...the rest have their place, and are needed to stay calm and simple, but I know for my own sake, I want to do right by the quilt. My ego would rather put on the "amazing" border, but when it's not right, it's just not right!! Thanks for the insight Patti and Gai...very helpful.