I would like to meet the person - maybe at an inexpensive restaurant (separate checks) - so that if things didn't go well, one can always make up an excuse to leave early.
But it may be that the other person has some sort of disability or something and feels weird being out in public? of that they can't afford to dress nicely? maybe the person isn't who/what you think he/she is?
Last edited by bearisgray; 11-14-2012 at 07:08 PM.