I met a fellow QB'er about a year ago and we became very good quilt buddies until I moved. I was leery at first to meet also. We met at a very public restaurant and things just clicked. But, for some including me, it could be very worrysome. Maybe you can meet at a quilt show some time. If she is willing. Sorry it didn't work out. Hopefully she'll forgive and continue to be your cyber friend.