Welcome from Dallas Tx area. Do you get a rest or time off from caring for your MIL? You need to care for yourself too. I have a 90 yr. old sister in nursing home, just 5 min. from me, but it is still hard to go every day to visit her. She always wants to go home. Doesn't know where she is . It's hard. I'm 83 and can't care for her in my home. Too much lifting. But I know she is getting good care. Barny