Anael I just want to wrap my arms around you and tell you everything is going to be alright but unfortunately I can't do that. Your DS and DDIL have many sleepless hours ahead of them as they struggle with this decision. May God guide them through this difficult time
Bev you and your family are also in my prayers,
I hope it is comforting to both of you to know that you can come here any time and let your feelings out.
Stay strong