My DS just called. The decision of what to do is made by the doctors so that's a relief. They're on their way home now, tomorrow they will have to go back. They're not going to have triplets, that's absolutely sure now. The little one is having more and more problems but they can do a procedure where the other twin can survive so they might still have twins. So we're happy and sad at the same time. Tomorrow will be a very difficult day as the doctors have to put the little one to sleep. That's very hard but it's the only way his brother can survive. So my heart has to say goodbye to a grandson I'll never get to know.