This is so funny!!! My husband likes to drive me to Joanns it is 40 miles each way and he likes the time together in the car + he knows he will get a really good lunch/dinner out of the trip...usually Red Lobster. But, when we get there he stays in the truck after I tell him it is ok. He sneaks a cigar, reads the paper and makes calls to his kids on the cell phone. Sometimes he will come in and use the bathroom, catch up with me and ask me if I need any more money, and to make sure I get what I want. He spoils me because he knows I have only finished 1 quilt so far in my short quilting career, but he keeps encouraging me to keep collecting fabric, fat quarters, pre-cut squares and drolling over expensive sewing machines!! We are just funning with each other and I think that is great in a marriage/relationship to have a good sense of humor. Life's too short.