Collecting/forming? No way does that count! That's an idea that requires substantial prep work prior to committing to a formal quilt design. All those squares that we are both collecting could be one or more quilts. So...you just can't count the unknown.
Swaps are also unknown. For example, I may make 3 quilts out of my Boom blocks instead of 1.
Therefore, if unknown, it doesn't count.
Yes, I sleep better at night; with less than 20 UFOs. All identified as unfinished.